Savvygurl

It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.

i beg to differ with this "great" wisdom. in my opinion, it is better to do things right, wait patiently for the right one. when u r in the middle of the situation, u feel like the world is crumbling down and u have no power over anything at all. all u can do is just stand by and watch everything happen-whether u like it or not. u feel like ur shoulders are not broad enough to carry all the weight. u feel sad most of the time. but in actual fact, u should be feeling happy, joyful, with peace in ur heart.

I feel that in love, a guy has to protect the girl. whether physically, mentally or emotionally. He has to make sure the girl is secure. That is true love. pure love. not love that wants gain, but love that gives freely. a love that fights is not love at all!

u should wait for THE ONE. even though this person may come along with all the promises u want, he or she may not be the best choice-yet. Choose wisely, wait patiently, don’t get hurt. It’s hard. no doubt.but hang in there, don’t lower ur standards. in the end, u’ll find ur waiting will save u from lots of heartache.